Proverbs 19:14 House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the Lord.
Foresight, frugal, provision, wise, careful, discreet: all of these words are used to describe the word "prudent", which is used in most of the translations to describe a wife who is from the Messiah.
Be encouraged to seek the Messiah and entrust your spouse to His care.
There is power in prayer and it is part of our relationship with Yahwah to pray for our spouse. Trust the Lord with everything, He is able to go before us and shape the heart of our spouse, and the future spouses of our children for His glory.
May the Holy Spirit lead you in seeking first His Kingdom, and remember that He is the author of life able to restore any relationship.