Proverbs 13:10 Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.
Pride will in the end disengage us in the event that we allow it to. It is the inverse of humility, and it keeps us from get help that we require from others.
Wisdom drives us to depend upon the Lord and the Lord's people. It doesn't ensure that things will work out the way we need them to, yet it promises another family in Yahshua the Messiah.
Try not to dismiss the individuals who attempt to contact you with offer assistance. Hear them and consider important what they recommend and how they can come close by of you and offer assistance. Maybe the help offered is not the way you would accomplish something. That is most likely Okay, since Yahweh Our heavenly Father can and uses these things to redeem you, to encourage you, or to convey you from your suffering.